Why is the narcissist contacting me?

Why is the narcissist contacting me?

If a narcissist is deficient in Narcissistic Supply, he will seek it out from anyone he can get it from. If he comes to you after your relationship has ended, you must understand he is coming to you because he is not getting enough attention or validation from his current source of supply.

What happens when you tell a narcissist not to contact you?

If we ignore them again by saying “no” or going “no contact” with them, narcissists might go into a complete rage. This rage is a coping mechanism in order for them to deal with us keeping our distance from them or saying “no” to them. A rejection of narcissists means that we think they are not perfect.

Will a narcissist contact you again?

It’s all a trick to reassert their control. So, in short, the answer is yes, a narcissist will continue to come back after “no contact” until their targets cut off all forms of narcissistic supply, leaving them no choice but to go find other prey upon which to feed.

Does a narcissist come back years later?

As you can see from the above, many narcissists are quite willing to come back for as long as it suits their needs, while remaining oblivious to yours. If you cannot realistically envision a good future together that does not involve the narcissist suddenly becoming different, you might want to stay “discarded.”

Do narcissists come back after breakup?

Do Narcissists come back after dumping you? Yes! They most often come back after ending the relationship if there is still enough supply for them.

How do you react when a narcissist comes back?

The best thing to do is ignore him and eventually something or someone else will get his attention and distract him from you. As he is likely to enjoy open confrontations more than you do, if you say or do anything back in response to his provocations, he is likely to escalate the conflict even more.

What happens when you cut ties with a narcissist?

Breaking up with a narcissist is likely to be a draining experience. Either they won’t let you go without a fight, or they will discard you without looking back. Both experiences are extremely hurtful.

Why do narcissists always return to their ex-lovers?

A narcissist will always return to an ex-lover to ensure that his narcissistic supply still pines for him and that she never moves on from the pain he has caused her.

Is the narcissist’s new girlfriend worried about the ex?

Sharing is caring 71 Of the most common searches that lead people to Let Me Reach, a large percentage consist of female readers wondering about the male Narcissist’s Ex-wife or his new girlfriend. In other words, the new girlfriend is worried about the Ex and the Ex is worried about the new girlfriend.

Is your narcissist hoovering?

Remember, the narcissist is never worried about what you’re doing while he’s gone or that you’ve found a better love because he’s conditioned you to wait for him…to wait for the hoover. It’s time to ignore the subtle signs of hoovering and get on with your life.

What is no contact with a narcissist?

No Contact is the key to escaping The Hoovering and the narcissist’s life-long plan for you. It’s also the only opportunity you’ll ever have for breaking the codependency to hope that the narcissist counts on you to cling to while he’s gone.