Why do narcissists dump you suddenly?

Why do narcissists dump you suddenly?

Ending a relationship with a narcissist is incredibly difficult. Sometimes a triggering event will motivate the narcissist to leave. These are usually life-altering events for one of you. Illnesses, aging, and job losses or promotions can act as triggers for the narcissist to suddenly abandon the relationship.

Will narcissist come back after blocking?

A narcissist will come back after no contact if they find themselves low on attention, and they consider you easy to get that attention from. Most narcissists hate being alone, and they need attention far more than most people. It’s only when narcissists need something that they appear back in your life.

What could happen if you start ignoring a narcissist after being discarded?

They will lash out – narcissists thrive on using others as a source to make them feel important. If you ignore them and deny them of their source, they may become enraged. They will essentially have a tantrum and throw insults and threats at you.

What happens when you discard the narcissist?

This cycle confirms the narcissist’s distorted sense of being superior to their victims. If the victim ‘discards’ the narcissist first, he or she upsets the power dynamic that bolsters the abuser’s desire for power and validation.

What happens when you block the narcissist?

Essentially, narcissists thrive on using others as a source to make them feel important, loved, cherished. If you ignore a narcissist and deny them their source, they may become enraged and try even harder for your attention – especially in ways that can be toxic or abusive.

What happens when a narcissist gets discarded?

How does a narcissist react when you reject them?

Gaslighters/narcissists are extremely sensitive to rejection. Any perceived slight can throw them into a tailspin. Many times, gaslighters/narcissists will be out for revenge. One of the most common ways gaslighters/narcissists attack those who reject them is by subjecting them to public humiliation.

Do narcissist watch their victims after discard?

It is no wonder, then, that narcissistic abusers are known to stalk their former victims months, sometimes even years, after the ending of the relationship, especially if their victims discarded them first. They may stalk you on your social media platforms and even engage in cyberbullying or threats.

Does the narcissist think of you after discard?

Many narcissistic individuals are quite capable of assuring you that you are the love of their life one day, and then suddenly leave you for someone else because they got angry or bored. Their desire to reconnect with you after the “discard,” is equally shallow. This is equally true of narcissistic men and women.

How do narcissists act when they leave?

Narcissists hate losing their supply of attention, so they won’t let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise “to change.” They might suddenly start doing things for you that you’d been complaining about. They may say “you’ll be lost without me,” or “you’ll never find someone like me.”