Why do I never initiate contact with friends?

Why do I never initiate contact with friends?

Sometimes a “friend” doesn’t initiate contact because you’ve misread the relationship and they aren’t as close to you as you think (which is not equivalent to them completely hating you). For example, they’re not big on texting overall, and will only initiate contact with their two best friends.

Why do I always start conversation?

People who are used to you starting the conversation are likely to assume that you’re busy elsewhere and will get back to them whenever it’s convenient for you. It doesn’t have to mean that they don’t care.

Why doesn’t my friend initiate contact with Me?

Sometimes a “friend” doesn’t initiate contact because you’ve misread the relationship and they aren’t as close to you as you think (which is not equivalent to them completely hating you). They may be a co-worker or classmate, who will happily chat to you during school or work hours, but doesn’t feel a need to talk to you otherwise.

Is it normal for a friend to not text or call?

If a friend doesn’t reach out much, it’s not always a sign that something is wrong. There are several benign reasons they may not message or call that often. I’ll cover those first, then go over a couple of ways something could be off about the relationship. After that I’ll lay out some options about what you can do.

Why does my friend wait so long to contact me?

If you and your friend have known each other a long time, you may have fallen in a rut where you do all the contacting and your friend waits to hear from you. Your friend might not mean for this to be a bad thing, it’s just that this is the way it’s always been and they don’t make an effort to change it.

Why does my friend ignore me when I text her?

Sometimes, the other friend may have anxiety over being the one who initiates the conversation, or you’ve always been the one to make the first text, and they’ve come to expect it. This is just one sign out of many, and it’s entirely circumstantial. When They Do Contact You, It’s Because They Need Something

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