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What to say when offering condolences?
Immediate Personal Condolences
- I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.
- I’m stunned by this news.
- My heart aches to hear this news.
- I love you and I’m here for you.
- Please know that your friends love you and are here for you.
- I’m so sorry.
- My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
- God bless you and your family.
Is it appropriate to offer condolences text?
The answer is yes, if you are comfortable doing so. Texting a condolence is an efficient way to immediately reach out to friends and family. A heartfelt message lets those who are grieving know we are thinking of them. Receiving these short, meaningful messages allows the bereaved to feel comforted and supported.
Is it rude to offer condolences?
That said, if you are thinking about contacting the bereaved or would like to offer your condolences, you should absolutely do so. For many people it can be a great comfort to know that friends are thinking of them in such a difficult time.
Do you offer or give condolences?
If you enjoy a close relationship either with the bereaved or the deceased, you should make contact as soon as possible. If you are a casual friend or part of a wider social circle, it’s fine to send condolences within a few days or just after the funeral.
How do you give condolences over text?
Examples of Mourning Texts
- Just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you, praying for you, and grieving with you.
- I’m here if you ever need to talk.
- My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.
- Can I bring you anything?
- I’m sorry for your loss.
- Just wanted to share my favorite photo of [name] with you.
How do you offer condolences professionally?
Please accept my deepest sympathies during this very difficult time. I hope the memories you have with your relative comfort you. I’m so sorry for your loss and I am keeping you in mind. I’m so saddened to hear about your relative’s passing.
How do you properly use condolences?
Simple Condolence Messages
- My/our condolences on the passing of your father/mother/friend.
- Please accept our sincerest condolences. We are thinking of you.
- I was so sad to hear of your loss. My condolences.
How long should you wait to offer condolences?
Is it ever too late to express your sympathy to someone who has suffered a loss? If you’re trying to follow proper etiquette, it’s best to send a note, gift or flowers within two weeks of the funeral. However, you can do it later, as long as you feel it would be helpful rather than painful.
Is it OK to send condolences via email?
An email can be comforting to a person, too, but a handwritten note or your presence somewhere else (a meal, funeral attendance, donation, etc.) is even better. HELEN’S ANSWER: It is still proper to send a hand-signed sympathy card or note. Generally email is used for casual or informational brief messages.