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What to do if you are no longer attracted to your girlfriend?
The route you want to take will depend on the result you want to achieve.
- Reconnect. If the attraction to your girlfriend has faded, and you want to reconnect, there are steps you can take to try to see if improving your relationship can improve your attraction to one another.
- Take Some Time.
- Take Action.
Should I tell my girlfriend I am not attracted to her anymore?
It’s not a bad idea to tell them. In fact, it’s pretty necessary. You can’t keep stringing them along. Relationships are not built or strengthened on lies.
How can I get my girlfriend back if I’m not attracted?
If you’re no longer attracted to your girlfriend due to an issue in the relationship like the concerns outlined above, putting in the effort to work through that concern is probably your best bet. Therapy modalities such as the Gottman method include a great deal of guidance on how to increase attraction in a relationship.
Are you not attracted to a fat girlfriend?
You’re not attracted to women who are plump, overweight, or even obese. Worse, sometimes you feel disgusted or even repelled by your girlfriend’s weight. These tips are inspired by a guy whose friends tease him because of his “fat girlfriend.”
What to do when your girlfriend has gained weight?
#1 Encourage exercise. If your girlfriend has gained weight and you’re not as attracted to her as you once were, try to encourage her to exercise. When you approach the subject always use the word “we” instead of “you.”
Why do I lose attraction for my girlfriend?
These are the obvious reasons why you might lose attraction for your girlfriend. There are, however, less obvious reasons why attraction can fade away. Your girlfriend might be too needy, too available, too clingy, too unsexy (even if she’s beautiful) to arouse you.