What really makes narcissists angry?
Those whose narcissism reflects feelings of defensiveness and resentment feel shame when their self-esteem is threatened, and tend to react to those threats with anger and aggression.
Why do narcissists try to upset you?
Narcissists lack empathy and they cannot relate to the emotional experiences of someone else. For this reason, when the narcissist hurts you, they are unable and/or unwilling to understand how their actions negatively affect you.
How does a narcissist act when they are mad at you?
Examples of narcissistic rage range from intense outbursts and sudden fits of anger, to passive-aggressive acts such as simmering resentment, icy silence, deliberate neglect, or cutting sarcasm.
Why do narcissists get mad when they can’t control you?
The narcissist feels threatened when they lose control; they are afraid they will be exposed for who they really are, and they are petrified of losing their narcissistic supply. They can’t bear this feeling, and to defend themselves against this gut-wrenching emotion, the narcissist will go into attack mode.
Do narcissists deliberately hurt you?
Sometimes, the narcissist doesn’t mean to hurt you. Being sensitive to everything is just how their brains work. And if they are — by their own logic — being attacked, they will bite back even harder. However, by their nature, they may also want to hurt you too, because it makes them feel superior.
How do you live with a narcissist you can’t leave?
17 steps to leaving an abusive relationship with a narcissist
- Don’t give them “one more chance.”
- Don’t tell them you’re leaving.
- Make a copy of all your documents.
- Make sure you have spare cash.
- Report what’s happened to you.
- Log out of everything.
- Check your devices for trackers.
- Don’t believe their flattery.