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What does the Bible say about having sex before marriage?
There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be a sin (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13, 18; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage.
What is First Corinthians 7 about sex outside of marriage?
First Corinthians 7:2 is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.
What does the Bible say about sexual immorality?
Ephesians 5:3 declares, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity…because these are improper for God’s holy people.” The biblical definition of “immorality” is “any form of sexual contact outside of marriage” ( 1 Corinthians 7:2 ).
The call to avoid sex before marriage was reiterated in other parts of the Bible including 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, Ephesians 5:3 and Galatians 5:19. God bought our bodies at a price and wants us to use our bodies (His temple) for His glory.
Does God understand my sex drive?
As I wrote in a recent column, the sex drive is part of the motivation God uses to get people to marriage! Yes, God completely understands the sexual drive of a 33-year-old male, and God uses it — and other things — to move 33-year-old single males to pursue marriage, not make excuses about modern times and extended singleness and his “needs.”
Do we need to test before marriage?
I believed in the need to test before marriage, just in case. But I have since found that God doesn’t make mistakes. If we are dating the right man, then God knows that that man is the one for us and we will not need to have sex with him before marriage.
Is culture responsible for my boyfriend’s problems?
Your boyfriend also makes the “culture” responsible for his problems. Got news for him: “Culture” doesn’t make people do anything. The culture hasn’t made him delay marriage. Your boyfriend acts as if people have no choice in the matter as to when they marry and when they have sex.