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Should you really care what others think?
The ultimate truth is that is absolutely okay – even beneficial – to be aware of and care about others’ reactions to you … so long as you don’t lose sight of yourself. But if you think you do place too much value trying to please others, then it’s time to turn the focus on strengthening your sense of self.
Why do we care so much about what others think?
We care so much about others because our happiness depends on the quality of our relationships. We want to be in their good books so that we can develop and nurture our relationships with them. Our worrying about what others think of us stems from the fear that we may be bereft of friends or intimacy.
What happens if we dont self care?
Neglecting personal care can cause increases in anxiety, distractibility, anger, and fatigue. You may also experience decreases in sleep, relationship satisfaction, self-esteem, empathy, and compassion.
Why do we go after the unattainable?
Apparently, our urge to go after the unattainable is in our DNA. George Loewenstein, an American educator who studies the link between economics and psychology, is known for his “Information-Gap Theory,” which could help to explain some of this strange behavior.
What happens when you want what you can’t have?
Wanting what you can’t have, whether it’s a luxury lifestyle or a relationship with someone, can be a no-win game. The primary problem, of course, being that you’ll likely never be satisfied. What happens when you finally strike it rich? There’s a good chance your fortune still won’t be enough.
What does being in a situation you can’t escape Mean?
Being in a situation you can’t escape. Whether being physically or psychologically abused, the experience is one you can truly only understand firsthand. We can all imagine how it may feel to be in such a situation, but understanding the sort of reality that such an environment allows for is beyond our capabilities.