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How often do grandparents see their grandchildren?
42 percent of grandparents see their grandchildren weekly; 22 percent see them daily. 48 percent of grandparents say they wish they could spend more time with their grandchildren; 46 percent say they spend the perfect amount of time together; and 6 percent say they’d like to see the grandkids a little less often.
Should grandparents live near their grandchildren?
According to a 2002 AARP study, 80 percent of the grandparents surveyed stated it is important to live near their children and grandchildren.
How do you set boundaries with adult parents?
How to Set Boundaries with Your Parents (And Stick to Them)
- Have a convo.
- Express gratitude.
- Don’t wait.
- Be specific.
- Compromise.
- Keep your stance.
- Take space.
- Bring in a professional.
What are the rules for sharing a grandchild with others?
Rule #5: Share the grandkids with others. When a grandchild is born, you want that baby all to yourself, and probably always will. But there are other grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and more to think about. Sharing can be hard.
Should you hold grudges on your grandchildren?
Your grandson might disrespect you. Your granddaughter might forget your birthday! (Oy. That kid.) In these inevitable instances, you can air your feelings and even expect an apology. But unless it’s something irreversibly hurtful, you can’t harp. Grudges damage relationships. Forgiveness and communication strengthens them.
Do your grandchildren have a favorite grandparent?
They might not admit it to your face, but secretly, grandkids have a favorite grandparent. (Admit it: You did, too.) The favorites are willing to try new things, suggest kid-friendly activities, and go with the flow. They’re the ones who laugh freely and hug closely, who—cliché as it is—have the most cookies on-hand. Rule #3: Offended?
Should grandparents give advice on child-rearing?
Unless you’re asked directly or believe your grandbaby is in danger, keep your child-rearing opinions to yourself. Too often, a grandparent’s unsolicited advice comes off as veiled criticism, which can breed resentment and drive a wedge between family members. If you need to vent, your partner, friends, and coworkers are ready and waiting.