How do I deal with a narcissistic rage mother?
If your mother is a narcissist, take these steps to manage your relationship:
- Set boundaries. Create and maintain healthy boundaries.
- Stay calm. Try not to react emotionally to what she says, even if it’s an insult.
- Plan your responses. “Have a respectful exit strategy when conversations go off the rails,” Perlin says.
Why is it important to know why your family member is angry?
Either way it doesn’t matter as the intention of knowing the reason is not to finger point or to fault the person. By knowing why your family member is angry, it will help you understand him/her better, which will help you (a) avoid similar conflicts in the future and even (b) cultivate a better relationship with him/her.
How does my father relate to me and my family?
Importantly, your father’s method of relating to you, and others in the family, is due to a problem he has, not a problem with sons, daughters, or other family members. While he appears aggressive, forceful, and controlling — he’s actually socially and emotionally inadequate, inarticulate, and unskilled.
Why is my dad so verbally abusive to his kids?
His anger problems may be related to poor coping skills for example. As you discovered, these factors combine and increase when he is under stress, making him more verbally abusive. Sadly, if this behavior is related to his childhood or background, he may have no understanding that the behavior is abusive or demoralizing to his children.
What will happen if a parent does nothing?
So if a parent does nothing, their children will become quite schooled in the dark arts of self-indulgence. Therefore, parents must constrain their children to right behavior. In time their moral understanding will develop and they will begin to choose good, even when it is contrary to their carnal desires.