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Why did my wife choose her affair partner?
The Willing Partner Some individuals, as a result of sexual addiction – or because they’ve given themselves permission to stray for whatever reason – are looking for anyone willing to have an affair. Once they locate someone willing to interact with them, that person becomes the affair partner.
How long do married affairs last?
Longer-term affairs usually last from six months to approximately two years. For both men and women, longer-term affairs can arise from an unhappy marriage where one or both partners feel underappreciated or undervalued by their significant other.
Why is it so hard for my spouse to end an affair?
If your spouse tried to set boundaries, this affair partner would attempt to bulldoze them over. They are unlikely to end the affair themselves and may make it difficult for your spouse to end it as well. Have you received disturbing messages from the affair partner?
Why would a married woman have an extramarital affair with you?
Many married women engage in an extramarital affair if they suspect their husband is having one or have discovered the same. While having an affair with you, she may just be using you to teach her husband a lesson. She may be feeling that she is giving her husband a taste of his own medicine while sleeping with you.
Should I talk to the affair partner about my pain?
No matter the role of the affair partner, it’s natural to want to reach out – either to scream or to question. Or perhaps both. You want your pain to be heard and you want your questions answered. Keep in mind who you’re dealing with. You can have a conversation with a victim, but not with a saboteur.
Can a single man have an affair with a married woman?
So an affair with a married woman is something many single men are involved in. Here is a story of a woman who shares with us what she learned from having an extramarital affair. She claims it started as a gradual seduction of the mind she just couldn’t help herself.